Arousal The Secret Logic Of Sexual Fantasies

Author : Michael J. Bader
Publisher : Macmillan
ISBN 13 : 9780312302429
Total Pages : 308 pages
Book Rating : 4.28/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Arousal written by Michael J. Bader and published by Macmillan. This book was released on 2003-01-18 with total page 308 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences. Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies. In terms refreshingly free of jargon, he reveals how his profound new theory can be used to decipher a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behavior, ranging from ordinary preferences about positions in bed to flamboyant scenarios worthy of the Marquis de Sade. And yet, Dr. Bader's exciting new theory transcends the realm of individual psychology. Readers will come away with a radically new understanding of such issues as sexual chemistry and boredom, cybersex, pornography, and the differences in how men and women get excited. Both erudite and accessible, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies is an important landmark in the literature of sexuality.

Author : Michael J. Bader
Publisher : Macmillan
ISBN 13 : 1466838957
Total Pages : 308 pages
Book Rating : 4.56/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Arousal written by Michael J. Bader and published by Macmillan. This book was released on 2003-01-18 with total page 308 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Sexual fantasies. Everyone has them, but no one knows what they mean. People are curious about and often confused by the things that arouse them, yet they are often too ashamed to reveal their most private fantasies to their partners or even their therapists. In this fascinating and provocative book, Dr. Michael J. Bader offers a groundbreaking new theory of sexual desire, one that will liberate men and women and enable them to better understand their sexual preferences. Drawing on his twenty-five years as a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst, Dr. Bader demonstrates that rather than being programmed by biology or society, sexual fantasies and preferences are really psychological antidotes to unconscious dangers. Armed with this novel theory, men and women will no longer need to feel ashamed about what arouses them or confused about what arouses others. Dr. Bader sensitively tells the stories of his patients and explains the meaning of their sexual fantasies. In terms refreshingly free of jargon, he reveals how his profound new theory can be used to decipher a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behavior, ranging from ordinary preferences about positions in bed to flamboyant scenarios worthy of the Marquis de Sade. And yet, Dr. Bader's exciting new theory transcends the realm of individual psychology. Readers will come away with a radically new understanding of such issues as sexual chemistry and boredom, cybersex, pornography, and the differences in how men and women get excited. Both erudite and accessible, Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies is an important landmark in the literature of sexuality.

Author : Michael Bader
Publisher : Random House
ISBN 13 : 0753507390
Total Pages : 274 pages
Book Rating : 4.91/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Arousal written by Michael Bader and published by Random House. This book was released on 2003 with total page 274 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Most people know what their sexual fantasies are but few of us have an insight into why they work. In this groundbreaking exploration of the libido, Dr Michael Bader draws on 25 years experience as a psychotherapist to offer a new theory of sexual desire: that our sexual imaginations are a 'portable first-aid kit for our psyches'. His analysis - that our fantasies are neither kinky nor perverse, but dependent on a need for psychological safety - enables us to understand the complex dynamics that determine our sexual preferences. Dr Bader uses case studies from his own practice to build up a convincing argument that our fantasies - from the conventional to the seemingly bizarre - work as an antidote to the non-sexual fears and anxieties each of us carries over from childhood. Bader's non-judgemental findings are revelatory and empowering, bringing fresh thinking to a subject we smugly thought we had finished analysing. Arousal enables both female and male readers to understand their own and their partner's sexual desires. It offers radical ideas about sexual chemistry and explores the different ways in which men and women get excited. Both accessible and enlightening, Arousal is an important, jargon-free landmark in sexual psychology that is invaluable to anyone interested in human relationships.

Author : Brett Kahr
Publisher : Basic Books (AZ)
ISBN 13 : 0465037674
Total Pages : 514 pages
Book Rating : 4.74/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Who's Been Sleeping in Your Head written by Brett Kahr and published by Basic Books (AZ). This book was released on 2009-01-27 with total page 514 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Presents and analyzes the results of a study of the sexual fantasies of over 23,000 men and women of all ages, discussing stories of specific individuals, the role of fantasy in waking life, and the functions of these fantasies.

Author : Nancy Friday
Publisher : Rosetta Books
ISBN 13 : 0795335393
Total Pages : 399 pages
Book Rating : 4.96/5 ( download)

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Download or read book My Secret Garden written by Nancy Friday and published by Rosetta Books. This book was released on 2013-11-18 with total page 399 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The #1 New York Times–bestselling author’s “groundbreaking” work on women’s sexual fantasies (Publishers Weekly). First published in 1973, My Secret Garden ignited a firestorm of reactions across the nation—from outrage to enthusiastic support. Collected from detailed personal interviews with hundreds of women from diverse backgrounds, this book presents a bracingly honest account of women’s inner sexual fantasy lives. In its time, this book shattered taboos and opened up a conversation about the landscape of feminine desire in a way that was unprecedented. Today, My Secret Garden remains one of the most iconic works of feminist literature of our time—and is still relevant to millions of women throughout the world. “The author whose books about gender politics helped redefine American women’s sexuality.” —The New York Times

Author : Michael J. Bader
Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
ISBN 13 : 9780742560697
Total Pages : 174 pages
Book Rating : 4.94/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Male Sexuality written by Michael J. Bader and published by Rowman & Littlefield Publishers. This book was released on 2009 with total page 174 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: At first glance the sexual male seems easy to understand, but beneath the surface lie complexities that disrupt lives and relationships. Respected psychologist Michael Bader takes an honest look at the nuances of male sexuality, addressing issues such as sexual boredom, internet sex, and sexual fantasies that can leave women bewildered and men ashamed. Illustrated with engaging examples from his practice, Male Sexuality gives readers, both women and men, deeper understanding of male behavior. Through increased awareness of the psychology behind the sex, Bader aims to enhance individual self-esteem and improve communication in relationships.

Author : Nancy Friday
Publisher : Rosetta Books
ISBN 13 : 0795335350
Total Pages : 408 pages
Book Rating : 4.58/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Forbidden Flowers written by Nancy Friday and published by Rosetta Books. This book was released on 2014-02-06 with total page 408 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A collection of women’s intimate erotic thoughts by the #1 New York Times–bestselling author of The Secret Garden and “liberator of the female libido” (Newsday). The publication of the groundbreaking expose on women's sexual fantasies, My Secret Garden, ushered in a revolution in women's sexual freedom of expression. In Forbidden Flowers, Nancy Friday reveals even more erotic, wild, and explicit fantasies expressed by women all over the world, from all ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds. Like My Secret Garden before it, Forbidden Flowers is a celebration of the depth, potency, and imaginative breadth of women’s inner erotic lives. By giving female readers a glimpse into the ordinary and often extraordinary fantasies of other women, it offers to some an exhilarating freedom from the guilt and shame so often associated with sexual fantasy—and to others, provides fascinating insight into the psychology of female sexual response. “The author whose books about gender politics helped redefine American women’s sexuality.” —The New York Times

Author : Wendy Maltz
Publisher : New World Library
ISBN 13 : 1608682129
Total Pages : 219 pages
Book Rating : 4.26/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Private Thoughts written by Wendy Maltz and published by New World Library. This book was released on 2012-10-16 with total page 219 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Private Thoughts provides more than just these women’s fantasies, however. It combines new research with the advice of a seasoned sex therapist. The result is an exciting contribution to the field of sexuality. Drawing insights from Wendy’s research and advice from her clinical experience as a sex therapist, the book gently guides women to explore their own fantasy style and to recognize the origins of their fantasies. It gives women permission to enjoy their fantasies while also helping them to recognize how some fantasies may be masking emotional pain, which could be detrimental to them and to their relationships.

Author : Justin J. Lehmiller
Publisher : Robinson
ISBN 13 : 9781472142221
Total Pages : 0 pages
Book Rating : 4.25/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Tell Me What You Want written by Justin J. Lehmiller and published by Robinson. This book was released on 2022-08-25 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:

Author : Adonis Stevens
Publisher : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
ISBN 13 : 9781548350505
Total Pages : 54 pages
Book Rating : 4.08/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Dirty Talk written by Adonis Stevens and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2017-06-24 with total page 54 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: If you are looking to spice things up in the bedroom, this is the book for you. Though the title of this book is about dirty talk, it is so much more than that. In these pages, you will learn more about the art of erotic communication than you ever thought possible. When you are thinking about dirty talk, you may be a little nervous to try it out. This book will help you ease into the art of sexual conversation, and will give you tips on what to say, and what to avoid. This is the book for those who love to be erotic, but are not quite sure how to take the next step. Enjoy, and best of luck on your enhanced sex life.