The Courage To Forgive

Author : Janis A. Spring
Publisher : HarperCollins
ISBN 13 : 0063219662
Total Pages : 327 pages
Book Rating : 4.63/5 ( download)

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Download or read book How Can I Forgive You? written by Janis A. Spring and published by HarperCollins. This book was released on 2022-05-03 with total page 327 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: “If you are struggling with issues of betrayal—or the challenge of whether and how to forgive—here is the most helpful and surprising book you will ever find on the subject.”—Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., author of The Dance of Anger Everyone is struggling to forgive someone: an unfaithful partner, an alcoholic parent, an ungrateful child, a terrorist. This award-winning book provides a radical way for hurt parties to heal themselves—without forgiving, as well as a way for offenders to earn genuine forgiveness. Until now, we’ve been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring, a gifted clinical psychologist and award-winning author of After the Affair, proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives—without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for earning genuine forgiveness—one that asks as much of the offender as it does of the hurt party. Beautifully written and filled with insight, practical advice, and poignant case studies, this bold and healing book offers step-by-step, concrete instructions that help us make peace with others and ourselves, while answering such crucial questions as these: How do I forgive someone who is unremorseful or dead? When is forgiveness cheap? Can I heal myself – without forgiving? How can the offender earn forgiveness? What makes for a good apology? How do we forgive ourselves for hurting another human being?

Author : Joyce L. Villeneuve
Publisher : Xulon Press
ISBN 13 : 9781609570309
Total Pages : 138 pages
Book Rating : 4.08/5 ( download)

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Download or read book The Courage to Forgive written by Joyce L. Villeneuve and published by Xulon Press. This book was released on 2010-04 with total page 138 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: DO YOU FIND IT HARD TO TRULY FORGIVE OTHERS? Forgiveness is something that most of us struggle with throughout our lifetime, and yet, if not dealt with, it's an issue that will lead to bitterness, depression and deep-seated anger, resulting in unhappy and unfruitful lives. There's an easy kind of forgiveness when someone cuts you off in traffic, or says something unkind, but can you fathom the deeper kind of grace required for abuse at the hands of the parent who is supposed to love and protect you? How do you find the will to forgive physical, mental and verbal abuse at the hands of Christian brothers in a prominent ministry? How do you overcome the emotional scars of a childhood lived in the midst of a bloody and horrific war-zone? In "The Courage to Forgive," you will be inspired by one woman's personal journey through one of the most difficult challenges that humans face-forgiveness. From suffering through the horrors of war in Uganda, through the abuses at the hands of her mother-to a powerful moment of grace and forgiveness that changes her mother's life and her own destiny forever. Follow this incredible woman's story of unending perseverance and determination in the face of unspeakable trials. Her resilience and courage will inspire you, while her faith, and ultimately, her willingness to forgive, will change the way you think about your own life and faith. Joyce L. Villeneuve is a senior marketing and communications consultant and successful entrepreneur in the advertising, photography and public relations fields. She and her husband, Martin, live in Colorado, with their three children and faithful dachshund.

Author : Desmond Tutu
Publisher : Harper Collins
ISBN 13 : 0062203584
Total Pages : 240 pages
Book Rating : 4.88/5 ( download)

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Download or read book The Book of Forgiving written by Desmond Tutu and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2014-03-18 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Nobel Peace Prize winner, Chair of The Elders, and Chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission, along with his daughter, the Reverend Mpho Tutu, offer a manual on the art of forgiveness—helping us to realize that we are all capable of healing and transformation. Tutu's role as the Chair of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission taught him much about forgiveness. If you asked anyone what they thought was going to happen to South Africa after apartheid, almost universally it was predicted that the country would be devastated by a comprehensive bloodbath. Yet, instead of revenge and retribution, this new nation chose to tread the difficult path of confession, forgiveness, and reconciliation. Each of us has a deep need to forgive and to be forgiven. After much reflection on the process of forgiveness, Tutu has seen that there are four important steps to healing: Admitting the wrong and acknowledging the harm; Telling one's story and witnessing the anguish; Asking for forgiveness and granting forgiveness; and renewing or releasing the relationship. Forgiveness is hard work. Sometimes it even feels like an impossible task. But it is only through walking this fourfold path that Tutu says we can free ourselves of the endless and unyielding cycle of pain and retribution. The Book of Forgiving is both a touchstone and a tool, offering Tutu's wise advice and showing the way to experience forgiveness. Ultimately, forgiving is the only means we have to heal ourselves and our aching world.

Author : Chris Cleave
Publisher : Simon and Schuster
ISBN 13 : 1501124404
Total Pages : 448 pages
Book Rating : 4.02/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Everyone Brave is Forgiven written by Chris Cleave and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2016-05-03 with total page 448 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The instant New York Times bestseller from Chris Cleave—the unforgettable novel about three lives entangled during World War II, told “with dazzling prose, sharp English wit, and compassion…a powerful portrait of war’s effects on those who fight and those left behind” (People, Book of the Week). London, 1939. The day war is declared, Mary North leaves finishing school unfinished, goes straight to the War Office, and signs up. Tom Shaw decides to ignore the war—until he learns his roommate Alistair Heath has unexpectedly enlisted. Then the conflict can no longer be avoided. Young, bright, and brave, Mary is certain she’d be a marvelous spy. When she is—bewilderingly—made a teacher, she finds herself defying prejudice to protect the children her country would rather forget. Tom, meanwhile, finds that he will do anything for Mary. And when Mary and Alistair meet, it is love, as well as war, that will test them in ways they could not have imagined, entangling three lives in violence and passion, friendship, and deception, inexorably shaping their hopes and dreams. The three are drawn into a tragic love triangle and—as war escalates and bombs begin falling—further into a grim world of survival and desperation. Set in London during the years of 1939–1942, when citizens had slim hope of survival, much less victory; and on the strategic island of Malta, which was daily devastated by the Axis barrage, Everyone Brave is Forgiven features little-known history and a perfect wartime love story inspired by the real-life love letters between Chris Cleave’s grandparents. This dazzling novel dares us to understand that, against the great theater of world events, it is the intimate losses, the small battles, the daily human triumphs that change us most.

Author : Dianne B. Collard
Publisher : Wipf and Stock Publishers
ISBN 13 : 1532642962
Total Pages : 170 pages
Book Rating : 4.68/5 ( download)

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Download or read book I Choose to Forgive written by Dianne B. Collard and published by Wipf and Stock Publishers. This book was released on 2018-08-13 with total page 170 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: We live in a fallen world where offenses and serious grievances occur in every person's life. These painful situations, no matter how slight or serious, demand that we face the question, "Does God expect me to forgive?" The answer is clear. The choice is ours to obey. The power comes from God alone. I Choose to Forgive tells the heartbreaking journey from devastation to freedom from the unique perspective of a mother, father, and sibling on the ultimate offense of murder. In addition, the powerful testimony of the murderer's journey of finding forgiveness is shared in his own words. These personal stories are rooted in a strong biblical foundation, which undergirds the practical steps of choosing forgiveness.

Author : Catherine Claire Larson
Publisher : Zondervan
ISBN 13 : 0310560292
Total Pages : 244 pages
Book Rating : 4.96/5 ( download)

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Download or read book As We Forgive written by Catherine Claire Larson and published by Zondervan. This book was released on 2009-05-26 with total page 244 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Inspired by the award-winning film of the same name. If you were told that a murderer was to be released into your neighborhood, how would you feel? But what if it weren't only one, but thousands? Could there be a common roadmap to reconciliation? Could there be a shared future after unthinkable evil? If forgiveness is possible after the slaughter of nearly a million in a hundred days in Rwanda, then today, more than ever, we owe it to humanity to explore how one country is addressing perceptual, social-psychological, and spiritual dimensions to achieve a more lasting peace. If forgiveness is possible after genocide, then perhaps there is hope for the comparably smaller rifts that plague our relationships, our communities, and our nation. Based on personal interviews and thorough research, As We Forgive returns to the boundary lines of genocide's wounds and traces the route of reconciliation in the lives of Rwandans--victims, widows, orphans, and perpetrators--whose past and future intersect. We find in these stories how suffering, memory, and identity set up roadblocks to forgiveness, while mediation, truth-telling, restitution, and interdependence create bridges to healing. As We Forgive explores the pain, the mystery, and the hope through seven compelling stories of those who have made this journey toward reconciliation. The result is a narrative that breathes with humanity and is as haunting as it is hopeful.

Author : Lou Samara
Publisher : Bookbaby
ISBN 13 : 9781732936416
Total Pages : 0 pages
Book Rating : 4.12/5 ( download)

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Download or read book The Forgiveness Effect written by Lou Samara and published by Bookbaby. This book was released on 2019 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: THE FORGIVENESS EFFECT - A Journey of Courage, Hope, Healing and Freedom! -- A True StoryLou, a new father and a member of the Colorado Law Enforcement agency as a Training and SWAT Officer decided that returning to New Jersey and being closer to the family would make his life better. Little did he know that finding a job outside of law enforcement would be difficult. Once working in the corporate world, he wanted to be part of a team, share his ideas, grow the company and be successful. Others, however, were happy to introduce him to the world of corporate politics, verbal abuse, and public humiliation. Why, what had he done to deserve that treatment?Just when he thought things couldn't get much worse, everyone's life changed with the devastation of 9/11. On top of that, there was the agony of losing an unborn child and a marriage that was falling apart. His life was in shambles and he just couldn't catch a break. Lou, knew that he needed to do something before everything fell apart. He knew that he needed to get to the bottom of why he was feeling angry, overwhelmed and anxious. He needed to get control of his life for his son. So, he reached out to a couple of friends and mentors who saw Lou's despair. They willingly listened, sharing their wisdom and guidance. The journey at times, was tough and Lou often wondered how he could make it through feeling worthless, taken advantage of, or feeling like a failure in the eyes of others? Join Lou on his emotional Journey of Success, Courage, Hope, Healing and Freedom!

Author : Marta Perry
Publisher : Harlequin
ISBN 13 : 1459217896
Total Pages : 224 pages
Book Rating : 4.98/5 ( download)

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Download or read book A Time to Forgive written by Marta Perry and published by Harlequin. This book was released on 2011-09-15 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: HER PROMISE Some men were just unforgettable. AndAdam Caldwell was never far from Tory Marlowe’s thoughts. Now that she was back in town, Tory hoped that their one magical night might help Adam remember her…and help her fulfill a promise made. HIS SECRETAdam wasn’t sure he wanted Tory prying into his life, trying to dig up a past that haunted him. But asmuch as he tried, he soon found himself once again enchanted with her pure heart and unwavering faith. Could Tory’s love help Adam open his own heart once more to God…and love?

Author : Renee Fisher
Publisher : Harvest House Publishers
ISBN 13 : 0736947272
Total Pages : 194 pages
Book Rating : 4.75/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Forgiving Others, Forgiving Me written by Renee Fisher and published by Harvest House Publishers. This book was released on 2013 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Being a milennial today is all about the search for identity, purpose, community, and authenticity. But how does a young adult find any of those things when she's mired in the pain of her past? Renee Fisher, author of Not Another Dating Book and Faithbook of Jesus, says young adults don't have to stay stuck. In her new book, Forgiving Others, Forgiving Me, Renee shows readers how to let go of the pain and unforgiveness of the past accept God's forgiveness and learn to forgive others in turn move forward and embrace new dreams for the future By exploring the truths of Scripture and sharing her own extraordinary story of healing and repentance, Renee Fisher shows others in her generation how they too can be set free.

Author : Allen Rhea Hunt
Publisher : Beacon Publishing Incorporated
ISBN 13 : 9781942611837
Total Pages : pages
Book Rating : 4.38/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Everybody Needs to Forgive Somebody written by Allen Rhea Hunt and published by Beacon Publishing Incorporated. This book was released on 2016-11-01 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Forgiveness will unleash a power in your life that is underrated and often ignored. It is underrated mainly because it is underused. We fail to capture the power of forgiveness because we are afraid of it, because we have grown comfortable in our familiar wounds, or because we are sinfully stubborn. But the power is there waiting for us. The lesson is simple: Give forgiveness and you will unleash a flood of grace on yourself and on those around you. When you clench your fists and grit your teeth in anger toward someone, you have no room in your heart for God to place His hand in yours. Replace your clenched fist with an open hand and watch as God fills your soul to overflowing. This little book, and the twelve real-life stories in it, will help you capture the power of forgiveness in your life. Because everybody needs to forgive somebody.