The Betrayal Bind

Author : Michelle Mays
Publisher : Central Recovery Press
ISBN 13 : 1949481786
Total Pages : 211 pages
Book Rating : 4.85/5 ( download)

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Download or read book The Betrayal Bind written by Michelle Mays and published by Central Recovery Press. This book was released on 2023-03-07 with total page 211 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What happens when your partner, your primary person, in an instant, becomes a source of danger and pain? The Betrayal Bind introduces new language, concepts, and imagery to explore the crucial relational dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect to, yet connection is the key to healing. Discovering a partner’s sexual betrayal spins your world out of control. In a split second, your sense of safety is shattered, your trust is gone, and everything you thought you could count on is in question. Betrayed partners, whether dealing with an isolated infidelity or a pattern of sexual compulsivity, need immediate support to navigate the new terrain of their relationship. They need a clear articulation of betrayal trauma, a thorough education about their normal attachment-based reactions, and a proven path to healing. By focusing on how a partner’s attachment system functions in the wake of sexual betrayal, The Betrayal Bind offers a new, game-changing exploration into an age-old problem and connects the dots from research to the lived experience of betrayed partners.

Author : Patrick J. Carnes, PhD
Publisher : HCI
ISBN 13 : 0757318231
Total Pages : 338 pages
Book Rating : 4.38/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Betrayal Bond, Revised written by Patrick J. Carnes, PhD and published by HCI. This book was released on 2018-08-17 with total page 338 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Some really great books just keep getting better! For seventeen years The Betrayal Bond has been the primary source for therapists and patients wrestling the effects of emotional pain and harm caused by exploitation from someone they trusted. Divorce, litigation, incest and child abuse, domestic violence, kidnapping, professional exploitation and religious abuse are all areas of trauma bonding. These are situations and relationships of incredible intensity or importance lend themselves more easily to an exploitation of trust or power. In The Betrayal Bond, Dr. Carnes presents an in-depth study of these relationships; why they form, who is most susceptible, and how they become so powerful. Dr. Carnes also gives a clear explanation of the bond that compels people to tolerate the intolerable, and for the first time, maps out the brain connection that makes being with hurtful people comparable to 'a drug of choice.' Most importantly, Carnes provides practical steps to identify compulsive attachment patterns and ultimately to change or end them for good. This new edition includes: New science for understanding how our brains can make a prison of bad relationships New assessments and insights based on 50,000 research participants A new section utilizing the latest findings in attachment research and narrative therapy to concretely rewrite and rescript bad experiences A redefinition of the factors contributing to addictive relationships

Author : Csat-S Michelle D. Mays Lpc
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9780998843414
Total Pages : pages
Book Rating : 4.15/5 ( download)

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Download or read book The Aftermath of Betrayal written by Csat-S Michelle D. Mays Lpc and published by . This book was released on 2017-06-09 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Nothing can prepare you for the moment you discover that the person closest to you, the person you count on the most, has betrayed you. If you have experienced betrayal, you need help navigating the emotional devastation that follows. Help understanding what has happened, what to do, and how to move forward through the uncertain waters ahead. And, even more importantly, you need hope. The Aftermath of Betrayal, is intended to help you identify and articulate the experience you are having. To give you words, language, and concepts to describe the storm of betrayal and provide you with helpful tips and tools to move you toward healing. Even more importantly, this book exists to give you hope. Hope that there is a path through the trauma of betrayal, markers along the way to point you in the right direction, and plenty of help and support available for you. Hope that there is a way to not only survive the devastation of betrayal, but maybe even, dare we say it, thrive and flourish once again.

Author : Jennifer Freyd
Publisher : Turner Publishing Company
ISBN 13 : 1118234480
Total Pages : 186 pages
Book Rating : 4.88/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Blind to Betrayal written by Jennifer Freyd and published by Turner Publishing Company. This book was released on 2013-02-14 with total page 186 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: One of the world's top experts on betrayal looks at why we often can't see it right in front of our faces If the cover-up is worse than the crime, blindness to betrayal can be worse than the betrayal itself. Whether the betrayer is an unfaithful spouse, an abusive authority figure, an unfair boss, or a corrupt institution, we often refuse to see the truth order to protect ourselves. This book explores the fascinating phenomenon of how and why we ignore or deny betrayal, and what we can gain by transforming "betrayal blindness" into insight. Explains the psychological phenomenon of "betrayal blindness", in which we implicitly choose unawareness in order to avoid the risk of seeing treachery or injustice Based on the authors' substantial original research and clinical experience carried out over the last decade as well as their own story of confronting betrayal Filled with fascinating case studies involving unfaithful spouses, abusive authority figures and corrupt institutions, to name a few In a remarkable collaboration of science and clinical perspectives, Jennifer Freyd, one of the world's top experts on betrayal and child abuse, teams up with Pamela Birrell, a psychotherapist and educator with 25 years of experience.

Author : Vicki Tidwell Palmer
Publisher : Central Recovery Press, LLC
ISBN 13 : 1942094159
Total Pages : 132 pages
Book Rating : 4.59/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Moving Beyond Betrayal written by Vicki Tidwell Palmer and published by Central Recovery Press, LLC. This book was released on 2016-05-16 with total page 132 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A go-to guide on how to confront, heal from, and ultimately thrive after the devastation of betrayal by a partner's compulsive sexual or other addictive behavior The first book specifically for partners affected by addictive behavior that addresses, in detail, how to identify, create, and maintain boundaries as a vital component of self-care and an indispensable tool for healing and growth. Through working the 5-Step Boundary Solution partners will gain clarity; reduce the chaos inherent in relationships impacted by sex addiction; feel more empowered and in control of their lives; discover whether or not their relationship with the addict is salvageable. Vicki Tidwell Palmer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) in private practice in Houston, Texas. She is the author of the blog for partners Survival Strategies for Partners of Sex Addicts.

Author : Sibylle Georgianna, Ph.D.
Publisher : Sibylle Georgianna
ISBN 13 : 1638778124
Total Pages : 65 pages
Book Rating : 4.27/5 ( download)

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Download or read book A Man's Tools for Addressing Betrayal written by Sibylle Georgianna, Ph.D. and published by Sibylle Georgianna. This book was released on 2021 with total page 65 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: If you have been injured by a significant other's betrayal, use the tools described in this book to determine the options you have, interrupt triggers, calm down your stress levels, and become clear on what you can request. Your greatest wounding is to believe that nothing that you experienced with your significant other was real. You experience an out-of-the-blue grief response to the sudden loss of what you thought was your life. At some point you need to mourn the relationship you thought you had. Reactions such as anger, sadness, numbness or craving to go out and cheat yourself show the humongous loss. The betrayal wound causes you to no longer trust your significant other and yourself. You have many questions: Was my relationship with the one who betrayed me an illusion? What’s my sense of reality that I did not see the dual life of the one who betrayed me sooner? How could I have entrusted myself and my family to a person I did not know? You have been wounded on so many levels. At the same time, betrayal trauma is not your fault. Pick up this manual for keys to unlocking freedom and a clear vision to moving forward. "This book is a got to get for anybody who wants to improve their skills and work through their own betrayal trauma, and it’s for men who clearly don’t have enough resources. I just can’t thank you, Sibylle, enough for helping this very special population heal. It’s amazing and thanks again." Carol A. Juergensen Sheets, LCSW, Author "Help Her Heal"

Author : Lpc Csat-S Michelle D Mays
Publisher : Relational Recovery Press
ISBN 13 : 9780998843421
Total Pages : 118 pages
Book Rating : 4.23/5 ( download)

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Download or read book When It All Breaks Bad written by Lpc Csat-S Michelle D Mays and published by Relational Recovery Press. This book was released on 2018-12-30 with total page 118 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When you discover that your partner has cheated on you, shock waves reverberate through your heart. Everything dear about your significant other has been transformed from that which is familiar, comforting, and safe into a treacherous, untrustworthy stranger. If you've been cheated on, no matter how it is revealed or how it is done, where, when, or with whom, the painful fact is that cheating means you've been lied to, manipulated, and your trust has been betrayed. It is in these moments, after the betrayal is discovered, that the time for help is needed the most. When It All Breaks Bad, is born out of the collective insight, discernment, and experience of betrayed partners who have walked through the fire and come out the other side. Each of the chapters in this book outlines one thing you should do and some of the pitfalls you should avoid as you begin your first steps towards restoration and healing.

Author : Alice May
Publisher : Harper Collins
ISBN 13 : 0062518046
Total Pages : 388 pages
Book Rating : 4.40/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Surviving Betrayal written by Alice May and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 1999-11-17 with total page 388 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When Your Life Has Been Turned Upside Down Filled with profound wisdom and clear, healing guidance, Surviving Betrayal is the essential companion for any woman whose life has been shattered by infidelity. Author Alice May, who knows firsthand the devastating blow of spousal betrayal, gently leads women through the painful feelings of denial, desperation, and spiritual depletion that accompany infidelity. She shares her experience and strength and that of other women on how to find healthy outlets for rage, survive the inevitable rough spots, regain trust in others, and allow truth to heal the pain. She helps women empower themselves to live their lives with grace, dignity, and calm.

Author : Douglas Weiss
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9781881292517
Total Pages : 137 pages
Book Rating : 4.17/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Partner Betrayal Trauma Step Guide written by Douglas Weiss and published by . This book was released on 2019-04-15 with total page 137 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:

Author : John Bradshaw
Publisher : Health Communications, Inc.
ISBN 13 : 0757303234
Total Pages : 338 pages
Book Rating : 4.34/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Healing the Shame that Binds You written by John Bradshaw and published by Health Communications, Inc.. This book was released on 2005-10-15 with total page 338 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This classic book, written 17 years ago but still selling more than 13,000 copies every year, has been completely updated and expanded by the author. "I used to drink," writes John Bradshaw,"to solve the problems caused by drinking. The more I drank to relieve my shame-based loneliness and hurt, the more I felt ashamed." Shame is the motivator behind our toxic behaviors: the compulsion, co-dependency, addiction and drive to superachieve that breaks down the family and destroys personal lives. This book has helped millions identify their personal shame, understand the underlying reasons for it, address these root causes and release themselves from the shame that binds them to their past failures.