Bdsm Basics For Submissives Dealing With The Mental And Emotional Side Of Submission

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher : Lulu.com
ISBN 13 : 1312348305
Total Pages : 54 pages
Book Rating : 4.01/5 ( download)

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Download or read book BDSM Basics for Submissives - Dealing with the Mental and Emotional Side of Submission written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2014-09-24 with total page 54 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher : Lulu.com
ISBN 13 : 1300837101
Total Pages : 103 pages
Book Rating : 4.07/5 ( download)

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Download or read book BDSM Basics for Beginners - A Guide for Dominants and Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2013-03-14 with total page 103 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.

Author : Cherry Wilson
Publisher :
ISBN 13 :
Total Pages : 158 pages
Book Rating : 4.96/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Bdsm Mastery written by Cherry Wilson and published by . This book was released on 2021-04-30 with total page 158 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "The other day my girlfriend pushed me down and looked me in the eye. 'I'm going to make you cry, ' she said. She began to hit me in earnest, and made me count the blows." Why would we ever want someone we love to hurt us? Why would we ever want to hurt someone we love? And why do some of us crave it? "Later, as I sobbed and she held me, I felt the therapy of that release: the effect of dealing with PTSD and trauma with pain that I can end any time by saying my safe word. Pain that comes from someone who I know is doing it for both of our pleasure, and not out of a desire to actually hurt me." Julie brown, a queer trans woman, shared this anecdote with me after responding to my call for personal stories about BDSM. Over the past week, I've conducted interviews with a dozen members of the BDSM and kink community, ranging across identities, age, gender, and location. By now, the general mechanics of BDSM are familiar to anyone who's had even a passing encounter with Fifty Shades of Grey-the whips, crops, and handcuffs all recognizable accoutrement of kinky sex-but I was interested in exploring the personal, psychological side. BDSM is an acronym with several constituent parts: bondage and discipline, dominance/submission, sadism and masochism. Collectively, these behaviors might be referred to as aspects of kink, a term which covers the broad expanse of non-normative sexuality. It includes BDSM; it can also encompass things like watersports and various fetishes, like latex or balloons. I use "we" when referring to this community because I find myself a member of it, though, like any imagined community, membership is as much self-designated as it is given. I'm interested in BDSM. In particular, I like submission. I've explored rope bondage, been to play parties, and incorporated it into many of my romantic and sexual relationships. For julie, the appeal lies in how it allows her to access pain while being in full control of that pain-she can end it at any time with her safe word. BDSM allows her to process complex, traumatic experiences in a way that's safe and consensual. Her story resonated with my own experiences with BDSM, too: trusting a beloved partner to give me what I need, while knowing that I'm in full control of the situation, is exhilarating. Is that feeling universal? If you've ever fantasized about getting kinky in the bedroom, you're not alone. The runaway success of E. L. James's novel Fifty Shades of Grey - more than 100 million copies sold - not to mention the sales of other books in the series and the movies it's generated, prove that interest in BDSM - bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism - is anything but rare. "It's very out in the culture right now, but it's not fully out of the shadows yet," says Gentille. "People are still embarrassed to talk about sex. What they discover when they dive a little deeper into it is that in BDSM you actually get to talk about what you like, what you're curious about, and what is a definite 'No.' It's clear, overt, and collaborative and that can feel delightful. And if you like it, if you have control over what happens, it's all good fun." Wait! Why waste your time with my long talk, when you can dive in rightaway? CLICK THE BUY BUTTON NOW!! TO GET STARTED

Author : Michelle Fegatofi
Publisher : Lulu.com
ISBN 13 : 1304281787
Total Pages : 187 pages
Book Rating : 4.84/5 ( download)

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Download or read book UNVEILED The Secret Submissive Within written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2013-10-19 with total page 187 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is an in-depth, comprehensive guide for submissives new to the lifestyle and for those just wanting to broadentheir knowledge more. It starts with 'what a submissive is', moves to 'common terms in BDSM', 'contracts', continues on to 'possible punishments', 'what to look for in a Dominant', and ends with a very thorough 'Limits Worksheet' in the back. There are many more topics covered, but you will have to read further to discover them.

Author : Alicia Slave
Publisher :
ISBN 13 :
Total Pages : 147 pages
Book Rating : 4.50/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Submissive Training written by Alicia Slave and published by . This book was released on 2020-02-22 with total page 147 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Why don't add a healthy dose of BDSM to your sex life? It's time to be kinky. Become your Sub or Dom character. Learn how to live out your sexual desires, explore your sexual fantasies, and experiment with pain and pleasure. BDSM is an additional flavor in your bedroom. It's a safe sexual role-playing game between you and your partner. In this book you find everything you need in your submissive journey including guides of: Expressing your desire The submissive mindset Pain-Pleasure How to be in control even though you aren't Expressing your desires Communication Punishments How submission is good for you Misunderstandings of submission You're not tired of waiting? Become your Sub or Dom character and much much more! Scroll Up, Press the Buy now-button, enjoy the book to transform your sex life in BDSM way!

Author : Belle
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9780992515928
Total Pages : pages
Book Rating : 4.20/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Dominant/submissive Contract written by Belle and published by . This book was released on 2014-03-18 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you ever wanted to dominate or serve your lover? Whether you're just after something naughty to spice up your love life, or you are entering a devoted BDSM relationship and you'd like to formalise it with a contract, this adaptable deed is for you.Boost your intimacy and sexual repertoire. Use this legal style document to help you negotiate and define your kinky arrangement. This practical guide is ideal for establishing a power exchange experience. Use it to discuss your deepest desires and to keep your love life fresh. It's the perfect way to record your goals, desires and boundaries.Adds a new dynamic to your relationship. This deed covers all the essentials of a power exchange. Suitable for all levels of BDSM (from training to a total power exchange) including Master/slave, Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive dynamics.Helps you bring up the topic. Some never get the chance to express their desires. This could be from fear of being judged (even by your own partner) or perhaps not knowing how to approach the topic. Filling out a kinky Contract is a light-hearted way to introduce a saucy conversation.Entices you to explore. Going over this document together can be fun and exciting (a real eye opener). The Activity Questionnaire guides you to create, talk about and plan your kinky scenes.Keeps communication open. A main reason any relationship fizzles is lack of communication. A written agreement encourages you to negotiate and communicate with each other. Revise it regularly to stay on track and to keep things fresh.Helps you stick to the arrangement. Having your rules set out in writing makes your roles seem more official.Suitable for: Married couples, partners & lovers looking to explore a kinky lifestyle; and BDSM couples (D/s, M/s) wishing to define the relationship.It's fun and easy to start.Please note: the Dominant/submissive Contract is for entertainment purposes only. It is NOT legally binding

Author : Sharyn Ferns
Publisher : Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
ISBN 13 : 9781494737054
Total Pages : 468 pages
Book Rating : 4.51/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Domme Chronicles written by Sharyn Ferns and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2013-12-16 with total page 468 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This anthology of true life vignettes offers intimate glimpses into hot BDSM play between a female dominant and her boy. It includes passionate moments that cover the gamut of play: teasing, denial, chastity, flogging, caning, pegging, slapping, and much more. It also includes incredibly sweet exchanges full of tenderness and ownership, lots of kissing, laughter, affection, and silliness. "Your breaths come hard and fast. I bite you relentlessly, thrusting up against you from behind. Every new attack makes you wince and moan, but still you push back against me until I am shoving you up against the wall, tearing at your skin like I am going to devour you."

Author : Michael Makai
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9781310106156
Total Pages : pages
Book Rating : 4.50/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Domination & Submission written by Michael Makai and published by . This book was released on 2014 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring.Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: Primal relationships, online BDSM relationships, the Gorean subculture, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and the many ways it can all go wrong.You'll love Michael Makai's irreverent and humorous treatment of this subject as he gives you the benefit of his 35+ years of experience in the D/s and BDSM lifestyles.

Author : John and Libby Warren
Publisher : SCB Distributors
ISBN 13 : 0937609404
Total Pages : 200 pages
Book Rating : 4.08/5 ( download)

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Download or read book The (New and Improved) Loving Dominant written by John and Libby Warren and published by SCB Distributors. This book was released on 2012-12-12 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Previous editions of The Loving Dominant taught more than 40,000 people the fundamentals of safe, affectionate dominance and submisison. Now John and Libby Warren, two of the scene's most respected educators, have updated this seminal work for a new generation of pratitioners. Includes an all-new chapter on partner-finding, plus new information on electricity play, ethical play with multiple partners, watersports, kinky digital photography, and more!

Author : Two Knotty Boys
Publisher :
ISBN 13 : 9781931160698
Total Pages : 120 pages
Book Rating : 4.94/5 ( download)

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Download or read book Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes written by Two Knotty Boys and published by . This book was released on 2009-02 with total page 120 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A step-by-step guide that clearly illustrates how to turn great knots into great bondage. When Two Knotty boys, Dan and JD, began teaching rope bondage together they discovered that people learn best when they are shown close up how to tie knots and combine them with bondage techniques. They replicate this learning process with over 750 photos by acclaimed fetish photographer Ken Marcus and a wealth of captions, delivered in a lighthearted style, offering the world of safe BDSM to a new, curious audience.